Looking at my calendar, it was a year ago this week that I was admitted into the University of Washington Hospital with the understanding I would be there until I got a new heart. Seventy four days latter I walked out of the hospital to go to our small apartment for recovery. I had several folks stop in to say hi during this long wait. Some I turned away, because we were being very strict about seeing people, afraid I would get some sickness, any sickness, that would temporarily remove me from the top of the transplant list. After a while, we were turning away everyone, with the exception of immediate family members. To those who stopped in to say hi or were on there way to visit us that never had the chance to see me, we appreciate your understanding. This has not been easy on us.
Through this time, Rose has been my primary care giver. Making the drive between Wenatchee and Seattle to keep her job going and understand what the doctors were doing for me while I was in the hospital was hard for her. Today the doctors have told us they see that care givers for heart transplant patients seem to “hit the wall” after nine months. The care giver needs a break. Signs of stress may have been showing up early though. Note the above picture taken back in September after my heart transplant. Rose may be a “Survivor”, but the fact that her head band is on upside down could be a sign that all is not well. Today, I am now able to contribute to the run of the house, by doing some cooking and simple things like cleaning up the kitchen after meals or doing the laundry. She still handles enough to make for more that a full time job. We have tried to get out and do some normal things. Today we went to see Toy Story 3 at the theater. We enjoyed the outing together.
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